smthing lame?
http://www.flooble.com/fun/gayquiz.php
haha
http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/view?p=999&gid=4960163&uid=2503162 >> OrienTAtion FOTOS~! courtesy of Jeff's digicam :X
hope to get more
hmm. end up late :S well, by ard 5 mins.. but the LT's alreadi almost filled up.. heng &dru was earli enuff to still leave 2 seats for me n sf.. else gotta sit at the stairs liao :X
hmmm.. altho the lectures abit boring.. but i tink i was in a more light hearted mood there.. the stressful place that actuallie help mi destress fr other stuff :S
hmm, learnt tt &dru got elected as the vice chairman of juggling club... haa... now he hav attendence to kip le :X
en mi went to blandy's hostel... not bad.. nice n neat.. 'cept tt abit boring cuz she's alone... the onli thing to do is to face the comp le.. :S perhaps, it's good that ey hav hall activities..
*i pray for another enjoyable sem*
oh ya, got the orientation from jeff.. nicE! but quite incomplete.. i hope tianyao n xiaoming will send theirs soon
an organisation: will collaspe if no one is willing to commit
yup, today's the last day! muahahahaaa..
met up wif annie on the mrt today.. went dwn to harbourfront together.. (late of cuz.. hahaha) yup... en, also learnt that lj cfm comin to chap the orientation! (good! we're in need of girls.. hahahaa) yup.. so met up wif lj (and bumped into tianyao) at the habourfront mrt, en went to find the rest at the bus interchanged.. somehow, sat down.. n started playin daidee (originally spe to be bridge.. but christopher realised he forgot how to play that) yup... en after one rnd or so, i let some one take over? (i forgot who.) en went to settle the attendence stuff wif &dru... waited for a few more chaps to come.. en went for lunch at the hawker centre there...
after findin seats, i went back to the mrt station to look for vibhu.. that chap never tell me whether he's comin or not (in the end he din come?! n never inform me smmore.. argh.. nm..) yup... en juz got anything n ate.. (anything happens to be beehoon... a huge plate which i onli cleared like 50% of it..) yup... en lj n cj onli ate like one pc of prata each!?!!? omg..
yup... en was abt to leave for sentosa when tianyao suddenly called back (he wanted to go in n get volleyball 1st..) to say that he lost a couple of cards at the hawker centre.. so &dru n weiping stayed to look (but can't find it.. n tianyao went back to look for it in the end) and ey took the nxt bus.. haa.. tis time, we reach palawan beach much much faster.. no more jungle trail as jeff said :X yup.. en put down our stuff. settled down... n splitted ourselves up into 2 grps, one play ultima frisbee n the other soccer.. i was in the frisbee one.. (and of cuz, din managed to touch the frisbee much due to my height.... but not as bad as my orientation last year.. cuz the guys played low (due to wind)) was in and out of the game, haa.. en after that...got reel tired.. n rested.. (suddenly tot everyone mite not hav the energy to play again... yikes..)
yup.. en dragged lj n cj to go play volleyball... juz hit ard lar.. the ball alwayz stray off when the guy beside me hit.. :X then almost hit a bunch of girls who's suntannin at the corner behind me... en tianyao dunno get chairs fr where.. n we started playin captains ball? everyone played... n still the ball keeps going out.. (wonder why the bunch of girls dun wanna move n rather sit there n get hit by the balls..) then we played so long until i tot i gonna get a stroke or smthin.. so called for waterbreak (muahahaa..) then i guess ppl all went back to slack.. en annie ey all went to play volleyball i tink.. (ie no more ball for captains ball..) en we witness tianyao climbin a short coconut tree... haa.. it's quite funny... en more ogls (zhenrong's gang) join us...en got qijia n alvin teachin us how to play the "tuo1 game" haa.. erm, cuz the guys majority already took off their tops.. so its like nuttin left to tuo... so... lipsticks again :X yup.. in the end everyone is forfeited... haha.. :S after that, becuz of havin lipstick all over the body.. all went into the water.. and started our ultima frisbee in the water.. haha
well, i also din stay thru out the whole game lar.. sometimes by skin's burnin so went up n put more sunblock, then tianyao splashed sea water into my eyes. (which already tio the sea water..) so went to take off my contacts.. (for a moment, i cldn't find the contacts cuz it shifted up... :X . shldn't hav rubbed my eyes..) yup..took off my contacts, managed to make my way back n locate my glasses.. haa. en played awhile.. en went to help out to fill water bombs..
then after a while.. benny n lj had to go.. so the avalon took some fotos (tink it looks pretty lame :X) yeah.. en continued on wif the water bomb game after we filled like 100++ bombs.. the yr4 snrs took over tis game lar.. me n &dru ran out of ideas... then annie also duno much abt the games.. n the gamemaster (hanqiang) didn't join us cuz he went to buy food wif kiat an?
hmmm.. that game i din play.. but i kena all the strayed off bombs.. bobo shooters... *dionk* en i tink christopher tried to bomb me after the game.. he called my name.. threw the bomb at me n i caught it (wif the tot he's gonna pass to me at 1st..) :S ok.. nm.. haha..
yup, went to wash up after that n started the bbq.. dunno who suggested that me n cj n kiat an shld go marinate the stingray.. :S yup.. sambal sauce... en tianyao pass us his green tea shampoo to use as soap.. so me n cj's hands reallie stinked after that.. cuz the sambal sauce smell we din managed to rid off it.. n now, plus green tea.. phew.. *pinch nose..* so hafta tahan my smelly hands for the rest of the day... argh.. en we got a small mobile pit lar.. en juz peng some stuff there lor.... a small grp of us, mainly kiat an &dru, nicholas, jian kai, joseph (and some other wandering souls.. haa) n me there... yup... en occasionally jeff brot us some food fr the main pit.. din eat till veri full.. but well, it's fine lar.. en sally came ^_^ yup.. en also held the election for the year rep for both EEE n CPE...yup.. not bad... :P
my grp got quite a no. of nominees eh.. hehee.. too bad benny isn't there.. else wld hav dragged him up too..
so now... for EEE, prez: mingfeng
vprez: Ernest (my og)
CPE, prez: kelvin
vprez: Cheekiang (my og)
hee... hope avalon will stay bonded thruout their nus years~ :D
hmmm... tot i was gonna be late, and i was, but the thing is, i'm still the 1st one to reach there... perhaps i'm really destined to be early?! (in a sense, it's good :X) yeah... then &dru came after that.. n for quite some time, no one else came (which made me wonder if we got the place wrongly..) finally~ zhenrong came! haha.. en ppl started streaming in...
well, the attendance today isn't that good... but i shld say that all the fun ppl are down lar.. so things somehow worked out altho there's last min changes n so on...
yup, played the telematches n so on... i played in the 1st game (which i reallie dun wanna play at 1st) which is the dip hair in water.. haha.. i see the guys veri sad lar.. all hair so short :X yup.. obviously my team won. haha.. well, as for the rest of the telematch, things din go that smoothly lar.. but somehow, my team also hecked the results.. haaa..
en went for a break.. en started the foot-a-thlon.... well, i had to say they ain't that smart in a sense.... haa.. or rather, shld i say ey veri lao3 shi2..? went all over to find the ans.. .:X yup.. bumped into polar bear in the middle of the game.. so he tagged along to kaypoh.. hahaha.. oh ya, shenghwee's wif moi grp too.. zhenrong went to help weiping wif solaris.. (&dru's grp, but &dru's the gamemaster..) well.. apparently, after the game i realised that the other stations like no body went.. so &dru's station's the bziest.. haa.. :P and i guess alot of ppl muz be wonderin who so sadistic (me!) to let them touch a raw cracked egg for the blindfold game.. hehee...eh... i never put chicken head already veri good liao hor.. almost put that in :X
yup... so somehow, my grp won (i dunno how also.. ) yup.. got the prize.. n they decided to split it up n bring it all tml for sentosa to eat :P
en my grp and some ogls n some yr4 snrs (or issit one yr 4 snr?) went to hav dinner at clementi... hehe.. onZ sia~ my grp
gogo avalon (well, i tink we kinda reallie prefered abalone now :X)
morning: chaos... hiccups happened again :X oh well *shrugz*
my team: avalon (abalone?! yeah.. sounds like it.. so called ourselves bao4 yu2 for a while.. :X jeff's complainin we're makin him hungry)
ice breaker games: not bad, quite fun, in the end most of them all took part actively.. quite fun.. wif lotsa face that has been tu2 ya1 by me :X
well, today tiring.. somehow.. dunno why... den tok alot of cok wif my grp ppl cuz lunch time too long :X yeah... but not bad lar the guys.. n my grp onli got one girl (not includin me that is..) haa.. jialat.. this time girls veri veri little.. dunno where all go to liao.. tink the guys quite sad also :X
the ogls went to eat at clementi after that.. :P watch an potential catfight but no outbreak in the end :X
"excuse me, are you a freshmen?"
*smile* "no."
tink quite a couple of ppl asked me this.. perhaps i ain't that stale afterall, or at least, i kinda look fresh.. muahahaaa.. :S
went back to nus to help out for the orientation booth (think at tis point of time, it's better than me stayin at home bah...) quite boring actuallie... have to keep smiling keep askin ppl the same stuff... and i suspect cpe ppl juz bluffed me that ey are not n walked off :\ sad... yeah.. en got tired somehow... en annie's into her "mood swings" again? she told us not to sian sian.. but i tink she's worse in the face cuz she looks sian n lian hei hei.. :X but i'm glad she went for a long lunch... wif tianyao? :X ey 2 not a couple lar.. but if ey ever become one.. ey reallie gonna be a huan1 xi3 yuan1 jia1.. :S
anyway, today at the booth got annie, hanqiang, kiat an, tianyao, zhenrong, ivana n me.. :X not all at the same time cuz onli got 4 passes lar.. quite boring.. but heng got frens come visit the booth lar.. haa.. like zhengyang, nianjuan, shenghwee, chinmay, ashok, jerry n &dru. oh ya, i forgot to say, xiaoming also went to sign up at the booth :X he reallie in cpe?!?
but i dun like my break time.. nuttin to do.. n alone.. darn glad that i found shenghwee n chatted wif him for a while.. else i tink i gonna rot til like dunno wat...
packed up ard 515pm... n left the place ard 540pm.. &dru's done wif his juggling club stuff so came to help too.. so we brought the stuff down to the ece club room, &dru's helpin to carry the pvc poles lar.. en annie tied her 3 helium balloons onto the pole... n i was laffin sayin that normally ppl carry loads on their shoulder are downwards.. why is his anti gravity.. :X en annie added 2 red paper bags to the back of &dru's pipe.. n she started callin him the samsui man? :S she suggested that he wear the red bag on his head.. :X
yup, anyway, end of the samsui man... we reached ece club room n started discussin things there.. n rotted.. i was so tired i tink i'm in quite a daze.. en the rest are all crapping again... (wif &dru gettin rather lost in the end still... cuz it's all in chinese...) yup.. en hanqiang keep sayin wanna go eat dinner..so we left... n at the bus stop.. annie suddenly let go (deliberately) of her balloons.. en end up there starin at the balloons fly... nice scene la.. but... i tot that's illegal.. yeah, en ey started crappin again.. dunno how end up talkin abt guys in s'pore no qing2 qu4.... en &dru asked me wat it is... n i realised i dunno how to translate... :X so told him it's something like being romantic... en hanqiang ey all start to help translate also.. haa (guess no one wans to listen to annie tok :X )
yup.. but i din join them for dinner.. in the end onli hq, ka n &dru went to eat.. the rest all went home.
was sleepin all the way back on the mrt
went dwn to sim lim square to help my ex boss check the cstar cd.. no prob.. so means my boss's comp got prob liao.. en went back to RELC to pass back the cd n helped to install that thing again... stayed for half n hour plus plus en left the office wif eugene (snr of all snr there.. haa) en went to return n renew n borrow book in the orchard lib.. en headed back to bugis.. shoppin ard... en waited for zx ey all to come.. en headed to lena's school for meeting...
attendence.. 7.5/8.. why leh.. cuz ey kept sayin that jsim's "soul" is there.. (his views on the agenda printed out by erik that is.. :X) en did abit of voting, crapping laffing.. n zx's constant time keeping.. oh ya, got a "guest".. its lena's giraffe... hurrmph? (i dun even noe if i got the spellin rite.. :X) ok... meeting ended at ard 10++pm... headed home after that, everyone braindead
juz makin sure that tis place isn't gone.. mite come to revamp it.. if i picked up javascript that is... :X
God knows when.. :X
Hmm, i wonder why i can never make the whole blog stretch into full length.. very hard to read like this
Aug 07
alrite.. today's the 3rd n the last day.. quite a saddenin day.. cuz v. lil ppl came..
jh got a swollen foot (cuz he cut his toe.. en never bothered abt it. which i deduced that it led to infection since we walked ard barefooted..)
yeah... en jeff's dehydrated to the extend that the doctor told him to stay at home n pump water (haha~) ok.. he's stil so healthy y'dae.. (wonders wat happened overnite)
en cheewooi din come cuz he got things to settle..
&dru joined us in the middle of the amazing escapade (which i find it too hot to play wif my burns n under the noon hot sun..)
yep.. dun realie like the game... en poor &dru got quite disheartened in the end.. cuz at 1st.. he's stil got the "we're gonna win man!" attitude.. but.. haiz.. not many is interested..
en the game dragged reel long.. haiz.. yeah.. en the finale item was darn last min.. n i cld stay for it cuz i went for co prac...
but heard fr &dru tt it's not well coordinated?
but i hope ey enjoyed it tho :)
oh ya.. and that uncle (qinghui) abandoned us again... haiz... sadded
Aug 06
yep... went to sentosa today..
went there feeling quite happy.. but it had to rain before we set off so we stayed at WTC to have our lunch (more of stoning) en set off on the buz...
well.. sf's stil disturbin jh on the buz lar.. haha.. keep callin him china boi.. :p but he always give a very farnie look when we do tt.. nm.. yep.. en jeffery onli meetin us there... so we reach there.. got off the wrong stop.. so walked fr siloso beach to somewhere near palawan beach... en started wif our games.. captian frisbee(very xiong to play wif guys lor.. onli tall peeps like &drew n hi jumpers like jeffery keep gettin the frisbee.. i like stand there fer nuttin -_-.. oh ya.. n the causalties are.. sh broke the chair n cut his leg.. while jh cut his toe)... soccer (used jh's slippers as markers for goal post. haha! stick it into the sand..).. en some water games.. haiz.. got quite a bad sun burn in the end...
then also played dog n bone.. yeah.. jh also got a bad sunburn.. infact.. he's almost red (crab?).. en the whole grp of uz walked (wet fr head to toe) to 7-11 at the nearby monorail station.. bought things to eat (n jeff accused all of us 4 temptin him..).. en watch some monkey show.. en even went to play on the play grd (of cuz.. most of the guys wldn't wanna join in.. haha!)
yeah.. en headed back to bathe...
haiz.. got sand all over ar... en the sunburns reallie pricky...
en after watchin the OGLS n some grp ppl(shenghwee, ashok n &drew ey all.. buryin the cards n diggin them up again (n &drew juz batheD?)... we started playin asshole.. en later heartattack (which is reallie rough on my account.. esp when i heart attacked. to hav so many hands piled up roughly on mine isn't my kind of idea for gaming...)
yeah..after tt was bbq.. but our grp juz sat down n played the hunter(aka polar bear) haha.. enjoyed playin
that quite alot (had to thank &drew for thinkin of this.. i never knew ey like the game so much..my past experience is ppl fall asleep playin it. but guess it's the timing we play haha)... en ey most of the time find me very suspicous.. n i "died" a wronged death many times.. well.. en i tink &drew also freq get wronged cuz he juz tries to debate to much out of it.. (reallie had to laff when i remember the pek cek look he hav when we gave him the suspicious look.. and "you guys are really wrong.." oh ya.. en stil got jh's laffin fits.. he juz can't stop lar...) hahaa.. yeah.. en also yvoone n her fren yingying also joined us.. so more ppl the merrier..
but becuz of that.. we din get much food too..
en many of them left... left onli &drew, jh, sf n me.. en &drew also dun wanna stay.. so i decided i shld go home.. en jh also followed suit.. leavin sf there.. but she got other frens to keep company bah..
so at 1st we took a ride ard on the monorail.. wif sf, sh, &drew n jh... sf kept wavin byebye to ppl.. en got &drew to teach me card trick.. hehee.. after tt.. we got our bags en we took monorail to the pass.. walked to harbourfront mrt.. en jh went to take buz while we took the mrt..
finally reach hm ard 1130 lidat... reel late..Zzzz
Aug 05
hmmm.... went for the 1st prac today... sheng reallie lil ppl.. got two alumni seniors there... both playin zhongyin sheng.. en i get to play the new gao yin sheng!!! by the zhao liang hong also!! same as aj's one. but more stylo (cuz black pipes) n louder~ but the buttons position abit out of place.. (ie not rite behind)
yeah.. but not bad stil :D
but i stil wanna play erhu~ haiz.. gotta wait..
en the Mr Er(sheng's lao shi) gave me one score
en we juz started practisin.. i fumbled here n there lar.. had to say that my side readin isn't that good.. en i can't remember my C diao also.. gotta go memorise liao...
Aug 04
hmmm... went wif a quite sian feeling.. budden managed to settle down abit.. overally the orientation not that bad lar... altho the games we play is abit old.. but stil quite ok... cuz it's very short..
but very tiring... cuz we've been runnin ard the whole of engin block the whole day... X_X
yep..en also learned that aside from yvonne's in cpe.. i learned that sengfang (st nicks classmate) also went cpe..*shocked*
yeah.. en for orientation prog... i'm in grp 3... the OGLs got.. qinghui, shenghwee, liyun n ashok... en the grp members got jeffery, andrew, krithika, jinhow, cheewooi n sengfang... yeah.. tink tt's abt all...
hmmm... quite a nice grp.. but sadly.. none of them in the same tutorial grp as me... =_= haiz.. nm...
the cpe reallie v lil ppl :P
rare species sia?
btw, we always say that the prizes we get from the competitions are "HongKong" chips (snds like HK trips ar :p)
Aug 02
erm.. the results for QET is out! and to my disappointment.. i tio the english academic module... but after checkin out the list.. i realised that everyone i noe takin QET tio that module.. and i suspected that those who "din pass" the QET then hafta take the basic english module...
so i counted as heng rite???? :p
haiz.. reading harry potter Order of the Phoenix (borrowed fr tk.. thankS!!)... felt that my temper soar as Harry Potter's soar... n oh well... realised that i'm losing grip of my temper too.... hmmm.. muz control!!!
started readin the book on fri... en i'm now already near the end of the book.. but my eyes are on the verge of dropping out.. darn glad ey ain't swollen anymore..
en went for the investiture for the j1s today...
hmmm... i shld say it's not as fun as our batch's one...
cuz this yr's j1 not as fun as the j2 batch? hahaa.. /me remember seein the jnrs moppin the floor n prayin :p
erm.. yeah... en felt abit numb to wat they're undergoing... hmm.. cuz mebbe i felt too much of it when it happened anyway... yeah... en from now on.. it's highly possible to see a reenact of havin seniors outside the co room mugging for their As and having things like study grp coming out.. n freq visits to wlds lib to study.. :)
Jul 31
haiz... juz tot tt age is catchin up on me... i've no long hav the mood for this kinda stuff.. esp the fair....
reach that earli.. so got my matric card n transit link card earli too.. haha...anyway.. see some common engin ppl.. ie.. some ppl juz dun follow scheduleS?
yeah... en after that.. was havin the hardest time in my life deciding btwn toshiba or hp notebook.... bought the hp one.. cuz the ram n memory blah blah is higher.. n price lower than toshiba's n lighter also.. no money la.. but alot of ppl bought toshiba laptops... oh well... as long as hp works fine... i dun need such a good brand like toshiba lar...
yeah.. en waited darn long to pay the $20 deposit for the laptop
en finally get to leave that time.. i waited dunno how long outside mpsh 2 to get into the matri fair..
the fair's not very glam lar.. some of the cca's booths are tucked away in a corner.. can barely see them...
wanna join alot of stuff.. but as usual.. i dun hav the time... dun tink i can even make it for the fencing course... *sobz*
yeah.. en i got sign up for nusco.. thing most prob going there too bah... since i'll get to learn 2hu..
well.. wanna join the anime club... but dun tink i can cope? =_= haiz...
darn tired.. dragged home wif 2 big n heavy bags..
the great NUS salE!!
this was the test i took... from the webby provided on herro's OD...
Who You Are
You're a woman who always reaches out to help
You're a pillar of strength and stability for the people in your life. You're responsible, loyal, and hardworking. In a crisis, you're definitely the one your friends and co-workers come running to. In fact, you're known for your common sense advice and business savvy. Your life is very ordered and busy since you're always juggling your career, family and friends, and community involvement. But you have room in your life for someone special. You're not someone who "wears her heart on his sleeve" so those close to you don't always know how you feel. However, they always know they can count on you to do what you say and say what you mean.
What's dating all about to you?
You're a true romantic. To you, finding a loving relationship is a mission or journey with clear goals and even a timeline. Falling in love is an especially magical experience. You're suddenly free from the rules and thinking that guide your life. You usually keep your feelings and life under control. But remember, the bigger the dam, the bigger the flood when it breaks!
You face two major challenges in finding the love of your life. First, it's easy for you to get too focused on finding Mr. Right and getting married, rather than "going with the flow" and seeing where dates lead you. Second, you're at risk for missing a great man because he doesn't initially seem to meet your standards.
How unique is your type?
Your personality profile is similar to a number of women your age. Looking at over 10,000 women who have taken the test, about 29.6% (or about 1 in 3 women) have very similar beliefs, values, and habits. Of course, the way these qualities are expressed in you is what makes you so unique.
Quirks men notice
Like all women, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Though you have lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person in your life who understands.
-Some days when you're in a bad mood and can't hide it, co-workers or friends take it personally and think you're upset at them.
-The organization and time-management skills that serve you so well in your career can spill over into your personal life and at times make you seem controlling and impatient.
-You're more cautious about getting into a commitment or saying "I love you" than most other women.
Do men like your type?
Notice that 95% of men are generally attracted to your personality type. 86% say they are VERY attracted. With the millions of people on Match.com, that translates into lots of potential matches.
Who You're Looking For
He'll be an enigma
You're looking for a very balanced man. He'll have clear goals in life and dreams he hopes to pursue. He's not always the most practical or realistic thinker, but his passion and excitement about his ideas are contagious. He also manages to balance a clear rational side with a more compassionate and caring side. He manages to enjoy one-on-one times as well as getting together with his larger network of friends. He'll constantly be juggling things in his life but will still find a place for you. Sound too good to be true? Men who are truly balanced like this are rare, but they do exist and would be an excellent fit for you.
Overall, it's important for you to be with someone who is almost always cheerful and has an optimistic outlook on life. The ideal person you're seeking shares a number of positive qualities with you, including:
-No strong similarities were detected, which suggests that you may be more attracted to certain "opposite qualities." Please read the next sections to see if you may be seeking someone with different or opposite qualities to balance your own habits and style.
Number of men your type
Men with the exact type of personality you prefer are rare gems. Looking at over 10,000 men who have taken this test, only 7% (or 1 in 14 men) have the exact combination of similarities and contrasts in personality you find extremely appealing.
However, there's a larger group, 27% (or 1 in 4 men), who have most, but not all, of the qualities and habits you like. These subgroups are charted below.
Almost three-fourths (71%) of the men have at least some of the traits you find attractive.
But you'd have a negative reaction to 29% (or 1 in 4 men), who have some or many of the characteristics you clearly dislike.
Opposites sometimes attract
You want to share your life with someone who has the same values, goals, and style you have. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. Still, sometimes differences can help create a "spark" and excitement about each other. Part of you wants to be more like him, or at least have his unique style in your life. He could be good for you in many ways:
-His happy and optimistic nature will brighten up your mood and outlook on life.
-Because his eyes are always on the future, he can help you plan ahead and get excited about goals without being bogged down in day-to-day practicalities.
Quirks you can tolerate
The truth is that everyone is potentially "high maintenance." We all have our quirks and shortcomings. The key to long-term harmony is finding a man who can tolerate (or maybe even enjoy) your "quirks," or the little personal oddities that make you unique. You seem okay with several common quirks that might come along with your "ideal" man:
-You can enjoy his enthusiasm for new ideas without taking his plans, which are often unrealistic, too seriously.
-There will be days when you think he's simply "too happy" all the time. Doesn't anything get him down? Is he human?
Downside of your "ideal"
In addition to his quirks, your "ideal" personality type may have other qualities that are more frustrating or challenging to deal with. Under stress, his quirks can become serious "flaws." But remember, these quirks are the "flip side of the coin," or the extreme end of qualities you otherwise find appealing. So, be prepared if:
-Because he has a very positive take on life, he's probably not the best shoulder to cry on. At times his cheerfulness may seem fake or shallow and make it hard to connect with him.
-He may talk a lot about his career ambitions and dreams for how to improve your community or the environment, but never takes practical steps to get there.
Deal breakers
You seem ready to adapt to the good and frustrating qualities of the men you're looking for, but there are types of men you clearly do NOT like. Men's habits and attitudes you'd have a hard time putting up with include:
-our responses suggest that you are pretty accepting and tolerant of shortcomings. No major personality "deal breakers" or reasons to rule out potential dates were identified.