this was the test i took... from the webby provided on herro's OD...

Who You Are

You're a woman who always reaches out to help
You're a pillar of strength and stability for the people in your life. You're responsible, loyal, and hardworking. In a crisis, you're definitely the one your friends and co-workers come running to. In fact, you're known for your common sense advice and business savvy. Your life is very ordered and busy since you're always juggling your career, family and friends, and community involvement. But you have room in your life for someone special. You're not someone who "wears her heart on his sleeve" so those close to you don't always know how you feel. However, they always know they can count on you to do what you say and say what you mean.


What's dating all about to you?
You're a true romantic. To you, finding a loving relationship is a mission or journey with clear goals and even a timeline. Falling in love is an especially magical experience. You're suddenly free from the rules and thinking that guide your life. You usually keep your feelings and life under control. But remember, the bigger the dam, the bigger the flood when it breaks!

You face two major challenges in finding the love of your life. First, it's easy for you to get too focused on finding Mr. Right and getting married, rather than "going with the flow" and seeing where dates lead you. Second, you're at risk for missing a great man because he doesn't initially seem to meet your standards.

How unique is your type?
Your personality profile is similar to a number of women your age. Looking at over 10,000 women who have taken the test, about 29.6% (or about 1 in 3 women) have very similar beliefs, values, and habits. Of course, the way these qualities are expressed in you is what makes you so unique.

Quirks men notice
Like all women, you have your strengths as well as your quirks and shortcomings. Ultimately, you want to find someone who will love and accept you "warts and all." Though you have lots of friends, it's important to have at least one person in your life who understands.

-Some days when you're in a bad mood and can't hide it, co-workers or friends take it personally and think you're upset at them.
-The organization and time-management skills that serve you so well in your career can spill over into your personal life and at times make you seem controlling and impatient.
-You're more cautious about getting into a commitment or saying "I love you" than most other women.

Do men like your type?
Notice that 95% of men are generally attracted to your personality type. 86% say they are VERY attracted. With the millions of people on Match.com, that translates into lots of potential matches.


Who You're Looking For

He'll be an enigma
You're looking for a very balanced man. He'll have clear goals in life and dreams he hopes to pursue. He's not always the most practical or realistic thinker, but his passion and excitement about his ideas are contagious. He also manages to balance a clear rational side with a more compassionate and caring side. He manages to enjoy one-on-one times as well as getting together with his larger network of friends. He'll constantly be juggling things in his life but will still find a place for you. Sound too good to be true? Men who are truly balanced like this are rare, but they do exist and would be an excellent fit for you.

Overall, it's important for you to be with someone who is almost always cheerful and has an optimistic outlook on life. The ideal person you're seeking shares a number of positive qualities with you, including:

-No strong similarities were detected, which suggests that you may be more attracted to certain "opposite qualities." Please read the next sections to see if you may be seeking someone with different or opposite qualities to balance your own habits and style.

Number of men your type
Men with the exact type of personality you prefer are rare gems. Looking at over 10,000 men who have taken this test, only 7% (or 1 in 14 men) have the exact combination of similarities and contrasts in personality you find extremely appealing.


However, there's a larger group, 27% (or 1 in 4 men), who have most, but not all, of the qualities and habits you like. These subgroups are charted below.

Almost three-fourths (71%) of the men have at least some of the traits you find attractive.

But you'd have a negative reaction to 29% (or 1 in 4 men), who have some or many of the characteristics you clearly dislike.

Opposites sometimes attract
You want to share your life with someone who has the same values, goals, and style you have. Research has shown that couples who have more in common tend to stay together longer. Still, sometimes differences can help create a "spark" and excitement about each other. Part of you wants to be more like him, or at least have his unique style in your life. He could be good for you in many ways:

-His happy and optimistic nature will brighten up your mood and outlook on life.
-Because his eyes are always on the future, he can help you plan ahead and get excited about goals without being bogged down in day-to-day practicalities.

Quirks you can tolerate
The truth is that everyone is potentially "high maintenance." We all have our quirks and shortcomings. The key to long-term harmony is finding a man who can tolerate (or maybe even enjoy) your "quirks," or the little personal oddities that make you unique. You seem okay with several common quirks that might come along with your "ideal" man:

-You can enjoy his enthusiasm for new ideas without taking his plans, which are often unrealistic, too seriously.
-There will be days when you think he's simply "too happy" all the time. Doesn't anything get him down? Is he human?

Downside of your "ideal"
In addition to his quirks, your "ideal" personality type may have other qualities that are more frustrating or challenging to deal with. Under stress, his quirks can become serious "flaws." But remember, these quirks are the "flip side of the coin," or the extreme end of qualities you otherwise find appealing. So, be prepared if:

-Because he has a very positive take on life, he's probably not the best shoulder to cry on. At times his cheerfulness may seem fake or shallow and make it hard to connect with him.
-He may talk a lot about his career ambitions and dreams for how to improve your community or the environment, but never takes practical steps to get there.

Deal breakers
You seem ready to adapt to the good and frustrating qualities of the men you're looking for, but there are types of men you clearly do NOT like. Men's habits and attitudes you'd have a hard time putting up with include:

-our responses suggest that you are pretty accepting and tolerant of shortcomings. No major personality "deal breakers" or reasons to rule out potential dates were identified.

haiz.. huangshen reallie made us wait man! i tink everybody almost thought tt we're juz gonna spend the rest of the day rottin away in the store...

yep.. so in the end the prac ended ard 9.30pm... en we drag until like ten en leave.... haha.. sorrie to Miss Xiao...

yep.. en went to yishun BK to eat... din bring coupon... en realised i no money wif me!!! in the end borrowed a dollar fr js to buy a taro turnover... haiz.. pai sehz...

juz a small outin wif jia n weishang... 1st accompanied jia to her agency or overseas schoolin... en went to orchard n walked ard as we wait for weishang...
spend most of the time walking around and chatting cuz we got no money to do anythin substantial.. well.. we did take some neoprints tho... cuz i tot since jia wld be going abroad, shld take some photos bah.. hee ^^;

en after that we went to walk ard fer a while more n en went to eat at swensens.. :p haiz.. but feel so broke now.. en we kept tokin abt our ex classmates blah blah... en when i was abt to leave for co prac but ended up got persuaded by jia n weishang to stay n walk ard somemore..
aiyah.. en we walked all the way to PS... en bought cream puff fr chou factory at one dollar each (half price) ... en went home..

Hmm, today managed to jio mary, omy n peiling to go watch Bruce Almighty at Cathay. Tot the show's reallie farnie~ *laffs* love almost every farnie part of the show.. haha... reallie goofy :D

en after tt, on the way to the hereen, a sales gal stopped us and started promoting this perfume tt's darn cheap (A huo4 ba..) but the way she promote is so exaggerating... til the 4 of us dropped our jaws.. hee... en after tt, once we step into hereen, another person stopped us to tell us abt dunno wad donation blah blah sentosa blah blah, en in e end we juz donated some money n left the person... argh... dunno why so many ppl come find us.. =_=
en after walkin ard HMV for a while, peiling left to go work.. en we stayed on a while b4 leaving... en once we stepped out of HMV, a guy from Urban Magik offered to perform card magic for us... en asked me to sign on a piece of card after picking one.. en he picked another one himself en gave me my own card and asked me to step on it while he step on his.. in a wink of an eye, he told me to take out the card under my shoes n it's his carD! wow! en he told omy to sign on a card en w/o lookin at it, he put the card in his stack of cards and the card appeared on the top... en after tt, he juz compressed the cards in his hands n the whole deck disappeared leavin onli omy's card... *jaws dropped* unbelievable~ amazing~ haha.. en omy get to keep the card.. hee

en we kept talkin abt the magic show.. en went to far east n walk walk.. en to lucky plaza as we waited for audrey to turn up... en we had claypot rice at lucky plaza en we went on to walk ard in taka and bumped into yvoone not long after... en went ard shoppin wif her since she's free to join us...
en we bump into a lady at guess tt was holdin on to a giant stack of clothes n stil lookin for more?! so freaky!
as for yvonne. she's reallie good at shoppin, we ran from shops to shops n she bought quite alot... :O
haiz... if i were to spend like her... my bank sure drop to 0 soon....

ARGH~ the most unbelievable thing happened.. dunno how come.... my hp. no. got connected wif another no. everytime call that no. my hp wil ring... argh... en got this filipino maid who somehow know of the no. thru her fren then kept callin that no. and ended up i keep receivein data calls... argh.. dunno lar... haiz... en now she say she wanna make frens wif me... *ack*

erm.. ydae was juz another lousy day in my life.... tink i juz got PMS bah?? en gettin paranoid n stuff....
but... of cuz.. to some extent i dun tink i am...
well never mind... sorry to js n tk... tink i juz annoyed them... haiz...
mebbe i'll juz quit being sensative n be a block head for a while....

today went out wif mom.. actuallie was quite reluctant to get out of the house when i saw the big hot sun... but went out anyway so i won't catch any stupid mood swings again...
my mom brought me a sleevless shirt.... no buttons... only got 4 strings to tie.. heee.. tot it's quite nice :)
yeah.. en walked ard AMK.. en my mom went to collect the dumplings she ordered.. she love it alot n always try to get the auntie to help her make some...
en passed by St Nicks.... haiz.... have an urge to go in and see but hell lar today's sunday.. haa
yep... en went to northpt... makan en walk ard abit en went home liao

ahhh~ finally had my basic theory test today.... *grinds teeth*
hope i pass.... but tink i will bah... quite confident hahaa... :X
i better dun say it so soon =_=�

28/05/2003
finally, today have alumni CO prac againZ...was getting quite happy over it since I don't have to rot at home... but the bad news came when bh called to tell me that one of the button went off key and wanted me to fix it again! *pek cek* do send the sheng for maintainence at least once a year lor... it's not a easy thing to fix it and even when i do fix it. it's not 100% fixed.... better get professionals lar..
yeah.. so i spend abt 40mins fixing that sheng... (somehow, i felt strongly to give up on it and go play erhu...) then by the time i join in the da zu.. like it's abt to end??? haiz.... anyway, gotta thank ll for offering to help me :)
yeah... after da zu it's 30mins of xiao zu... but after going thru the chuan ge abit.. i sian diao againz... i simply dun like practising alone...... but the ironic thing is.. i need to remember my fingerings.. forgotten almost everything.. en the songs alumni chose always got those sharp n flats one... @.@
after lazin ard... en me n daddie en adrian started the na mo o mi tuo fuo thingy in the CO room... en i went off to go n ka jiao the erhu players... en tried n help them out abit by helping them da3 pai1 zi3
after tt, prac ended.. adrian left... js rushed back to his camp... en xx went back to work! (poor thing...) en ll n zx went home... the rest of us (andrew,jj,hl,shihui,guoyong,gav,jianwei,zn,liyan n me) went to bishan mac to chat n eat lo.. the final discussion was abt chalet... en jj called up his fren to ask abt the pulau ubin one n we found out tt the promotion package is quite a good deal... now we onli need to noe when is the promotion up til... but tink ey might be considering changi chalet.. hehe...
en we discussed until the mac ppl chased us out...
late liao. go sleep le

yeah~~! my OD's finally fixed~~ hahaa. so guess i'll be using my OD liao.. but wil try n update stuff in here too~~

i wonder when FOD is going to get my OD fixeD?... sianz
today din do much... tried to sit down n study for my BTT.. but juz found out tt my hand's gettin quite weak when it comes to pen holdin.. ack~ help :p

happie mummy's day...
haiz.... :)

haiz... this year's mother's day like nuttin much bah.. en go to tt crammy restaurant tt's so disorganised..... haiz....

Yeah~~~ AJCO got gold n is going into the finals.. hahaa.. felt so glad for them.. cuz their hardwork finally paid off...anyway, the results came reallie later.. so instead of joinin them straight away, i went to meet up wif js 1st.. en went to draw money.. buy bubble tea.. n peanut butter waffle (i din buy this) ... then we "fly" to meet the jnrs at aj.
By the time I got there, ey are almost ready to leave liao... so juz waited for them to say their long goodbyes to each other haha.. n en proceed to amk kfc.. well, reallie glad to see all of them so happy.. it's good lor... :)
din do much there.. juz ate n chatted.. the onli alumni that are there are xx, zx, js n me... en suddenly zx came up wif the idea of trickin jj usin SCH's name in the bookin date of SCH for the alumni concert...haha.. aiyah.. now he's demandin the kfc buddy meal as a compensation....


today's a nice day :)

haiz.. dunno issit tt my brain is laggin terribly or wat...i actually dreamt of aliens and something seemingly like virus??? dunno lar... can't remember much of the virus part... or mebbe the virus is the aliens... (hehheh dreamcatcher? )
but... somehow, i dreamt tt the aliens are going ard killin ppl bah... en i was like runnin here runnin there... run until i woke up =_=
chasin aliens isn't a v. fun thing esp when i got no weapons to go against them or smthin...somemore ey're like rompin all ova the place... worried abt others gettin killed and myself as well... Zzzz haiz...

today went for an interview for part time job at ET Management... but they onli offer to pay $4/hr... quite low.. but i like the time... 9-1pm... i mean.. beats stayin at home n rot rite? hehee... hope i get the job :p

5/5/03
hmmm.. went to sign up for basic theory test today ... n passed js's recorder to lj on my wae there... i wonder if tt indian guy who always sat at the general office outside can recognise me liao.. hahaa

5/4/03
meant to stay at home today.. but ended up going out wif my mom to toa payoh.. b4 tt js passed the the tape he recorded for the karaoke session... i heard it when i reached home.. and it's darn farnie...
haha.. en at nite went to meet gavin for a while... juz to chat???
oh well.. haiz... dunno why, felt tt life like this is kinda sad (i'm not onli referrin to myself...)
xi wang ming tian hui geng hao....

5/3/03
kept pouring in the mornin.. haiz.. bad way to start a day lor i tink..
en finally made it to school.. en juz sit n listened to the jnrs prac again.. this time, got jj, tk, js, yl n sh lor. haha.. more ppl.. good hor? then waited for xq en headed towards yishun for lunch... had old chang kee :) en went to yishun safra's ktv for karaoke... (jj onli join us for lunch.. wy joined us after tt.. n yl n sh left halfway durin the co prac) the service there sucked big time.. and it's ex.. makes the whole thing even more unworth it.. i'll never go there again... esp if tt stupid guy stil workin there.. he reallie got attitude prob ar! but tink we tried our best to make the money worth it bah? choosed lots of songs n all these hahaa.. kept singing n singing whether we haf the mike or can reach the note or not.. haiz... glad tt i din sing myself hoarse tho.. :p
haiz.. nm.. a lesson learnt bah... n i hope tt guy gets sacked.. a person like him shldn't stay in the service line..

5/2/03
oh well.. now walkin to yishun seemed to be such a common thing to me liao.. cuz i kept going to popular bkshop.. today went there to buy assesment books for my tutee... i onli bought some... cuz i dun wanna dump a whole load on him.. but he's not tt understandin lar.. giv him so little hmwk he stil wanna bargin... haiz.. give him hmwk like selling veges to aunties like dat.. tao jia huan jia one... felt amused yet angry... haiz... but tink he really need to buck up his english lor... haiz... and he's so careless in his maths..

5/1/03
hmmm... realised that i haven wrote in my OD for 2 days liao... have nuttin much to say, cuz i'm doing almost the same thing at home.. and i'm going broke.. seriously broke...

today supposed to go for class outing one.. but ended up onli a few guys going.. so i backed out since i not close to them... and decided to juz go to see the jnrs prac and shun bian pei jsim since i doubt any other alumni is there.. so he won't feel tt extra... ha.. but i arrived later then him.. so he went thru the experience of everybody starin at him as he comes... i went thru tt too in past.. haha.. but i tink now ey all see me until ey used to it le ba... wanted to jio tk down... but he din wan
so we simply set thru the whole prac... not bad lar.. but then comes the alarming news..... huangshen wanna choose feitian for the finals incase we got in! which left everyone gaspin wif jaws dropped... well.. it's not tt a hard song.. but not tt a easy one either.. =_=
good luck to the jnrs!

yeah.. en after tt jioed some ppl to go lunch together.. but ended up a big group of ppl came along.. haha.. like a teenage gang lidat... haha.. aiyah.. en of cuz got all the draggin n tinkin of where to eat (which always happens...) we ended up eatin at the newest S-11 a big grp of us.. tink we quite noisy... en we ordered zhu chao (not horfun lar.. still ate rice but ordered dishes..).. en split the cost.. en it started raining...
haiz.. in the end we all stuck there.. en called tk to ask if he wans to join us cuz js cancelled his outin :p but cldn't hear wat tk's sayin en ended up kept passin the phone ard cuz we all cannot hear...
haiz... en we split up.. those tt wanna play lan go plan lan.. those went home went home.. en left wif js erik lj yulin n me... en we juz sat ard at kfc n chat.. en js, erik n lj went to watch X-men2 ... as for me.. i too broke to watch le. so i went home instead.. n found out tt i missed my RAVE!!!! argh... forgot today's thurs... haiz.....